Asked for Female | 20
What should I do for pain during sex?
It's common to feel discomfort during sex, often due to lack of lubrication, infection, irritation, or emotional stress. To help, relax, use lubricants, and communicate with your partner. If the pain continues, consult a gynecologist for further advice.
Answered By

Dr. Madhu Sudan
Sexologist
Answered on 8th Oct '24
Asked for Male | 57
Why Am I Struggling with Premature Ejaculation and Erectile Dysfunction?
Experiencing ED or PE? It’s when you finish too quickly or struggle to maintain an erection. Causes include stress, anxiety, or medical issues. Try relaxation techniques, communicate with your partner, or see a therapist. Doctors may suggest medications or therapy. Remember, it's common and treatable.
Answered By

Dr. Madhu Sudan
Sexologist
Answered on 8th Oct '24
Asked for Male | 27
Is feeling pee while masturbating normal?
It’s natural to feel that way when you are pleasing yourself. Most of the time, the reason is that the bladder is very near the prostate, which gets stimulated when a person is aroused. You should feel better right after the end. Ensure that you are in a comfortable position and are not holding in any pee before you start. If this sensation persists, or you have pain, it is better to consult a sexologist.
Answered By

Dr. Madhu Sudan
Sexologist
Answered on 8th Oct '24
Asked for Male | 17
Can stopping masturbation affect my ability to get an erection?
It is not a surprise if the sex drive is going to change after a certain period of time due to the fact that people stop for masturbation. Stress and fear can also be an inhibitor for sexual desire. Anxiety can be one of the factors for the problems of getting an erection. You may use relaxation methods like deep breathing and try to spend more time on foreplay during the moment with a partner. It is good to give yourself time and do not push yourself. You should be first focusing on creating a safe and trusting environment before you can try sex.
Answered By

Dr. Madhu Sudan
Sexologist
Answered on 7th Oct '24
Asked for Male | 42
How can I treat PE and ED at 42?
You seem to be having one of our two common problems: premature ejaculation (PE) and erectile dysfunction (ED). PE is the case when you reach a climax too quickly, on the other hand, if your penis loses the ability to maintain an erection during sex you mean that you have ED. These can be caused by stress, anxiety, or physical reasons. To help with PE, you can try techniques like the start-stop method. Medication like SSRIs can be sometimes helpful as well. For erectile dysfunction, medications like Viagra can be useful. Discussion with a sexologist is the most important thing for personalized care.
Answered By

Dr. Madhu Sudan
Sexologist
Answered on 7th Oct '24
Asked for Male | 20
Why Am I Struggling with Premature Ejaculation or Erectile Dysfunction?
Premature ejaculation happens when a man finishes too quickly, while erectile dysfunction is the inability to maintain an erection firm enough for sex. Both issues can stem from stress, relationship problems, or physical conditions. Simple approaches to address these include practicing relaxation techniques, open communication with your partner, and maintaining a healthy lifestyle with regular exercise and a balanced diet. Be patient and explore different ways of being intimate. If needed, don't hesitate to consult a sexologist, as these problems are often manageable.
Answered By

Dr. Madhu Sudan
Sexologist
Answered on 7th Oct '24
Asked for Male | 22
I am a 22 year old male,i have been mastrubating to gay thoughts since 12. from then, i have been mastrubting to gay thoughts and then fell disgusted. over the last 2 months,i have been mastrubating more to gay thougths than other sex thoughts. i am in love with a girl and i love her so much and i wish to live my life with her forever. but these thoughts and feelings pressurise me a lot and i dont want to be a gay and i really want to be with her. these thoughts make me suicidal. is there any solution to these problem? like if there is no,then i really want to die
Answered By

Dr. Arun Kumar
Ayurveda
Answered on 6th Oct '24
Asked for Male | 21
I am 21 years old. When i was of 14 years i regular do masterbate. I am now feeling pain in legs every morning,got weak digestive system,easily forget everything, sometimes got muscle cramps,body tremors sometimes,ejakulate too early and also had a fear for future that when i do marriage i cannot able to become father
It seems like you are facing side effects of excessive masturbation.. Masturbation is a natural phenomenon. All men do this but as a natural principle… excess of everything is always bad, so you must try to control it.
Don't do it more than once or twice in a month.
Don't worry you can do that... just do not watch porn… Try not to be remain alone, don't read or view sexual literature, books, whatsApp & porn videos etc.
Avoid oily, more spicy, Chilly and junk foods.
Do exercise daily for one hour or yoga mainly Pranayam… Meditation… vajroli Mudra... Ashwini mudra. Start reading religious books.
Please note that now a days the main drawback and side effect of the masturbation is once you are addicted to masturbation mostly and always by watching porn… where you get different type of stories... relations... girls… body... and styles... etc.
Once u got married u don't get all those things with wife so u don't get aroused and you don't get proper erection.
Now a day's mostly patients comes to us with the complaint that they are not able to get erection with wife in the bed but they are getting erection in the bathroom while masturbation.
This is creating a lot of problem in their married life so my advice is to control it. If u are not able to do so then you must consult your family doctor, many times it's not possible to control without the help of your doctor.
You can take Chandra kala ras 1 tablet morning and night after food
Yastimadhu chuma 3gms morning and night with water
Sidhamakara dwaja 1 tablet morning and night after food.
Do all the above suggested treatment for 3 months and see the results.
If you don" get satisfactory results then you can also contact nearest Sexologist
Answered By

Dr. Arun Kumar
Ayurveda
Answered on 3rd Oct '24
Asked for Female | 24
When can I safely resume sex after chlamydia treatment?
After finishing the week-long treatment, it is still necessary to wait 7 days before you have sex again. The purpose of this is to let the antibiotics work properly and make sure the infection is gone. Besides, make sure your partner is also tested and treated if necessary to stop reinfection.
Answered By

Dr. Madhu Sudan
Sexologist
Answered on 1st Oct '24
Asked for Female | 20
Could dry humping with clothes on lead to pregnancy?
It's very doubtful that pregnancy may occur in this way as you described. Pregnancy occurs when sperm fertilizes an egg, and usually requires direct contact. However, the way you illustrated it is not the usual way of getting pregnant. Should you be anxious, listen to your body. Check for common symptoms such as missed periods, vomiting, or breast tenderness. If this is the case, then take a pregnancy test to calm your anxiety.
Answered By

Dr. Madhu Sudan
Sexologist
Answered on 30th Sept '24
Asked for Male | 42
Why Am I Struggling with Sexual Problems with Diabetes and Hypertension?
If you have diabetes and hypertension, these conditions can affect your sexual health. Common symptoms include difficulty getting a firm erection for men and reduced libido for both men and women. These issues can arise from nerve damage, poor blood flow, or hormonal imbalances. To improve your sexual health, it's important to continue taking your diabetes and hypertension medications, eat a balanced diet, exercise regularly, and manage stress effectively. Additionally, discuss your concerns with your physician, who can provide a personalized treatment plan and support.
Answered By

Dr. Madhu Sudan
Sexologist
Answered on 29th Sept '24
Asked for Male | 24
Should I get tested for HIV symptoms?
These signs might be because of many things such as stress or bad eating habits. But don’t worry, your brother’s test result was negative which is good news but to ease your mind, you should also take an HIV test among others after discussing with a doctor about the issues at hand.
Answered By

Dr. Inderjeet Gautam
Sexologist
Answered on 28th Sept '24
Asked for Male | 26
How Can I Increase Bedtime with Partner?
It's normal to wish for a longer stay in the bed with your partner. Being tired or stressed can sometimes delay this. As a good habit, the tougher the day ends, the better you will feel. Running, yoga, and sleeping herbs can also be helpful. If anxiety continues, booking a consultation with a sexologist should fix the issue.
Answered By

Dr. Madhu Sudan
Sexologist
Answered on 27th Sept '24
Asked for Female | 19
Can I get pregnant if sperm doesn't touch me?
You cannot get pregnant unless sperm enters your vagina. The process of pregnancy is when a sperm cell meets an egg cell. If there is no sperm from you, then there is no egg to be fertilized. In this scenario, you have nothing to fear. To be sure, watch for signs like missing periods or nausea.
Answered By

Dr. Madhu Sudan
Sexologist
Answered on 26th Sept '24
Asked for Male | 19
Can HIV Transmit from Reusing Condom?
Using a condom that has been used already has a small risk of getting HIV or other infections. The first signs of HIV are fever, tiredness, and body aches. To remain safe, you should always use a new condom and get tested for HIV regularly.
Answered By

Dr. Madhu Sudan
Sexologist
Answered on 26th Sept '24