How can I increase sexual performance naturally?

Masturbation is a normal and positive practice. It is not a problem and does not need treatment. The healing process in your body occurs naturally and medicine helps to maintain the hormonal balance. Masturbation will not be a hindrance to your marriage. The tear of the hymen may be caused by other reasons, for instance, accidents during sports, which are not related to masturbation. However, the hymen should heal naturally. 

It's normal to feel deep emotions in an intimate relationship, even though you have to act cautiously in this case. Devotion can come as a result of a strong emotional connection, yet giving in to those feelings can have quite the opposite effect. My advice is to first think about the emotions you have and try to discuss them comfortably, maybe during therapy. A therapist is able to provide you with personalized guidance which can be very helpful in such cases. You should not only focus on your but also your mother's psychological well-being. Going to a professional therapist means that you will approach this process with compassion and in a healthful manner.

Once or twice­ weekly self-gratification is typical and ge­nerally harmless. Mild temporary discomfort or re­dness may occur, though rare. Using lubricant can reduce­ friction if pain arises. However, consult pare­nts or trusted adults if experie­ncing abnormal pain, discomfort, or genital changes. 

When you stop, your body can heal itself, and the hormones can come back to balance on their own. Masturbating on the upper lips of the vagina is okay. Night falls twice a month are normal and not dangerous. It's your body's way of getting rid of excess fluid.