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Why Can't I Last One Minute During Ejaculation?

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I am a 20 year old man who can't hold an ejaculation for a minute.I have been in masterbation for long.Kindly help

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Answered by Dr. Madhu Sudan

Check if you're the one who perhaps is suffering from premature ejaculation, and maybe you're undergoing it due to anxiety, habits, or maybe illnesses. Do not worry; it is quite common, especially when you have recently become addicted to solo activities. To cope with this difficulty, you should breathe deep and go through the process trying to control it with the help of some exercises that allow you to control your PC muscles. It is wise to also build psychological intimacy through shared activities with your lover, if appropriate. If self-help tips do not yield any results, it is recommended to seek consultation with a healthcare provider who may provide you with additional treatment modalities that fit your particular condition.

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Questions & Answers on "Sexology Treatment" (1215)

I was doing sex with a sex workers and my condom teared and dont know on time and had sex with teared condom how many chances of me getting hiv and how i can aviid it ☠️

Male | 21

Having sexual intercourse with an HIV-infected partner without condoms is risky and may result in HIV infection. If you have had sexual intercourse with a sex worker and the condom has torn, you should test for HIV as well as other STIs as soon as possible.

Answered on 23rd May '24

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I'm 18 years old now ,I started masturbation when I was 11 years old that means I'm in 7th th class ,in 8th class I used to masturbate everyday ,sometimes I used to masturbate multiple times in a day and I used to enjoy that climax orgasm,in my ninth class also I continued the same but in my tenth class my testicles became saggy , whenever I used masturbate after masturbation my testicles used to become so loose and i used to feel uncomfortable, for that sake I decreased the frequency of masturbation like once a week but after few days I lost my level of orgasm and I used get less pleasure but still I used to masturbate, i neglected it .. In my 11th and 12th class I don't used to masturbate at all in those 2 years i thought I did only 5-6 times in hostle now I completed my 12th class and now when I'm masturbating I'm not getting that orgasm but I'm releasing large amount of semen but while releasing I'm not getting that please I'm like neutral no change is happening ,I'm not getting that pleasure..and also if I'm masturbating more than ones or twice in a day I'm getting pain above my right testicle and above penis ..and I also got premature ejaculation, whenever I'm involving in sex with my girlfriend very recently i involved ,I'm releasing my sperm just after penetrating into her .. I'm worried so much even my girlfriend is getting worried about this Please help me with this,I'm not comfortable to discuss with my parents even

Male | 20

Your different feelings when you touch yourself and the pain might be because you did too much before. Sometimes people finish too fast from doing it too often. Try touching yourself less often and take breaks in between. Talk to a sexologist if you need more help.

Answered on 22nd Sept '25

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can't last long in the bed and I feel the size is to small

Male | 20

Experiencing discomfort during rest can arise from various factors, including mattress size, support, or personal comfort preferences. Symptoms like difficulty sleeping may indicate that your current setup isn't ideal. Consider exploring larger or more supportive bedding options tailored to your needs. Additionally, lifestyle factors such as stress or physical fatigue can influence your sleep quality. It's beneficial to create a relaxing sleep environment and practice good sleep hygiene. If this issue persists or significantly impacts your daily life, please consult a sexologist for personalized advice and solutions. Your comfort and well-being are important.

Answered on 18th Jan '25

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Baby ko ek sal ho gaye lekin sex karne ka man nahin karta hai Pati Se dur ban gai hai

Female | 26

It's completely normal for a baby to affect intimacy between partners. When a woman becomes a mother, her focus naturally shifts to caring for her child, which can sometimes lead to a decrease in sexual desire. Stress, fatigue, hormonal changes, and body image issues post-pregnancy can all play a role in this. It's important to communicate openly with your partner about how you're feeling. Taking time for yourselves as a couple, seeking support from loved ones or a counsellor, and incorporating small gestures of affection can help rekindle that connection.

Answered on 29th Oct '25

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My age is 55 years Gender - Male Since last 1 year i am taking following medicine - (1) Korandil 10 mg (Nicorandil): for angina or chest pain - 1 tablet after breakfast and 1 tablet after dinner - (2) Rosycap (Rosuvastatin) 20/75 - to lower cholesterol - 1 tablet after dinner - (3) Gluconorm SR 50 (Metformin):for type 2 diabetes - tablet after breakfast and 1 tablet after dinner - (4) Embeta xr 25 mg (Metoprolol) - 1 tablet after break fast 6 March 24 - angiography Mine CAG report says Mild CAD with slow flow in LAD and RCA I had episode of vasovagal during post procedure of angiography - please advise Can I take - Vigra 50 mg (Sildenafil): for erectile dysfunction With above mentioned medicine

Male | 55

Since you have mild coronary artery disease (CAD) and are on nicorandil and beta-blocker (Metoprolol), you should not take Viagra (Sildenafil) without consulting your cardiologist.

Sildenafil can lower blood pressure and may interact with nicorandil, potentially causing dangerous drops in BP. Also, considering your vasovagal episode post-angiography, extra caution is needed.

✔️ Please consult your cardiologist before using Sildenafil
✔️ A supervised cardiac stress test may be advised to assess fitness for sexual activity
✔️ Alternatives or safer options may be recommended depending on your heart status

Do not self-medicate in this case.

Answered on 3rd June '25

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I Had sex or not properly sex my partner just try to put his penis in my vagina but he just cannot or just little bit of it goes inside but he can't do precum or anything should I get pregnant or not what should I do

Female | 21

When a male reproductive organ touches the vaginal opening without going all the way in pregnancy chances are very minimal. However, it is not 100% safe. If this happened recently and you are concerned about being pregnant, you might want to take emergency contraception just to be extra sure. It is always good to have a chat with a gynecologist.

Answered on 27th May '24

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হেলো স্যার, আমার বয়স ২১ শারীরিকভাবে দুর্বল বঠে এবং অতিরিক্ত পর্ণগ্রাফিতে আসক্ত ছিলাম যার ফলে এখন আমার পেনিস বেশি স্ট্রোং হয় না এবং যৌনসক্ষমতা কমে গিয়েছে এক্ষেত্রে আমি যোনক্ষমতা বাড়ানোর জন্য পরামর্শ দিলে উপকৃত হইতাম?

Male | 21

At 21 years of age this problem is usually functional and often related to stress, anxiety, fatigue, or excessive pornography use rather than permanent damage. A sexologist would advise stopping pornography, improving sleep, nutrition, and physical activity, and reducing performance anxiety. If erections do not improve in a few months, a sexologist may evaluate hormonal levels and mental health and suggest appropriate therapy or treatment.

Answered on 25th Dec '25

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One day I do masturbation and suddenly a short pain feel in my private part right side.i think this is normal and pain is very little when I touched my private part a small pain feel. And this is around 1 month this is normal or someone.

Male | 16

It's not uncommon to feel a little discomfort after masturbation, especially if there was a sudden movement or pressure applied. The pain you're feeling on the right side of your private part could be due to irritation of the skin, a small tear, or even inflammation of the tissues. Usually, these issues resolve on their own with some rest and avoiding further irritation. However, if the pain persists or worsens, it's best to see a sexologist for a proper evaluation. In the meantime, try to give yourself a break from activities that could aggravate the area and keep it clean and dry.

Answered on 3rd Nov '25

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I have low erection and premature ejaculation

Male | 23

Experiencing difficulty with firmness and early release can arise from various factors, including stress, anxiety, hormonal imbalances, or underlying health concerns. It's essential to first assess lifestyle choices like diet, exercise, and sleep, as these can significantly impact performance. Techniques such as relaxation exercises or behavioral methods may help. However, it's crucial to speak with a sexologist to explore these symptoms more deeply and determine the most suitable treatment options for your situation.

Answered on 1st Mar '25

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Hi my girlfriend had licked my penis, though I hadn’t ejaculated but I suspect I had pre cummed, then she kissed me and she licked my fingers and fingered her, will this make her pregnant???

Male | 17

I get your fear but I can tell you now that your girlfriend can’t get pregnant from what you’ve said. For pregnancy to occur, sperm needs to fertilize an egg which usually happens during unprotected sex. There might be a small number of sperm in pre-cum but the likelihood of conception taking place in the situation that was explained is very minimal. It would be best if both of you do not want any STIs or pregnancies, and use condoms or any other forms of protection available.

Answered on 29th May '24

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I’m having these white bumps (with black dot in the middle of it ) had an unprotectedsex last june 23.but he said he is fine. And i dont have sex for a long time now before him. I noticed these bumps last july 2 . Not itchy,but i feel like its sore sometimes.pls help me

Male | 37

Get yourself evaluated for best advice

Answered on 23rd May '24

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I'm 27 years old male...i noticed something yesterday i masturbated two time when i go for third time..i feel a weird feeling on touching penis..means i don't want to touch penis...there is discomfort...how it recover?

Male | 27

An issue with your reproductive organs after masturbating may be the reason behind your discomfort. It is a common occurrence. The unusual sensation you are feeling might be caused by excessive stimulation of your penis. Your poor buddy needs a little time to rest and recharge. You could also try cleansing with warm water and avoid soaps and lotions that contain harsh substances. If you experience discomfort for more than 3 days and it doesn't go away, it is best to consult a sexologist. They will check if everything is fine.

Answered on 18th Aug '24

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I had a unprotected anal sex on 10 march ...with my boyfriend...but I am still virgin with vagina taken ab unwanted 72 within 72 hrs ...am I safe from pregnancy

Female | 25

Since you engaged in unprotected anal intercourse, there is no risk of vaginal pregnancy as sperm cannot reach the vagina in this context. Emergency contraception taken within 72 hours is effective for preventing pregnancy from vaginal intercourse. However, it does not protect against sexually transmitted infections (STIs). Watch for any unusual symptoms, such as discomfort or unusual discharge, and if you have concerns about STIs or other issues, please consult a sexologist.

Answered on 20th Mar '25

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Hydrocele pain, erectile dysfunction, male infertility, sperm volume, fsh, lh, hormone levels. Sperm count ,Premature ejaculation., inhibited ejaculation, libido sex problem please permanent recovery best ayurveda medicine please

Male | 29

Swelling around testicles (hydrocele) makes you feel uneasy. It's not painful, though. Struggling with erections, infertility, and hormones can affect sperm quality, and sexual function. Ayurveda uses Ashwagandha to boost sperm count, and libido naturally. But see a sexologist first for proper diagnosis, and effective treatment.

Answered on 1st Aug '24

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Does outercourse 4 days before expected ovulation day can cause pregnancy if you also took levenogestrel within 24 hours?. Is there still any risk of pregnancy?

Female | 25

Engaging in outercourse shortly before ovulation, while taking levonorgestrel, significantly reduces the likelihood of pregnancy. This hormonal medication prevents ovulation or fertilization when taken within 24 hours. However, no contraceptive method is 100% foolproof. Symptoms of potential pregnancy include missed periods, nausea, or breast tenderness. If you have concerns or notice any symptoms, consult a gynecologist for personalized advice and reassurance.

Answered on 10th Jan '25

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I am 20 year old . Problem releated to length of penus ,8 cm length it's maximum when it's normal 4 cm

Male | 20

The average adult penis size when flaccid is around 8 to 10 cm, and when erect, it's about 12 to 16 cm. So, having a penis length of 8 cm when flaccid is within the normal range. Sometimes, factors like genetics, hormones, or physical development can influence penis size. If you're still feeling uneasy, it might be helpful to speak with a urologist. They can provide more personalized advice and address any concerns you have.

Answered on 9th Oct '25

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Hi I want to ask a question day after I had physical with my partner but when I got the feel that the ejaculate will gonna happ6i pulled out and it taken 8 sec to 10 sec for ejaculate and I did it ont the belly. Is there any chance to be pregnant

Female | 23

The likelihood of getting pregnant in the situation you described is relatively low, but not impossible. Even though you pulled out before ejaculation, there's still a small chance of pregnancy due to pre-ejaculate fluid containing sperm. However, the timing and method you used could reduce the risk significantly. If you're worried, consider emergency contraception within 72 hours to be safe. It's always a good idea to use protection consistently to prevent unwanted pregnancies and protect against sexually transmitted infections. If you have more questions then please schedule an appointment with gynecologist.

Answered on 18th June '25

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I’m a 29 year old male, for a few years now, this has happened approximately 4-5 times. While intimate with my partner, and I’m receiving oral sex, it’s all normal until the moment I get the need to ‘release’, what feels like it should be normal, at the very last moment before it comes out, it ends up being urine instead., though if I’m by myself or I do the work, it’s a normal ‘release’ Why is this? It’s only while getting oral sex.. I’m otherwise a healthy male. I also work in the EMS field and know too many local doctors to want to ask them about this issue.

Male | 29

You might have retrograde ejaculation where semen goes into the bladder instead of coming out through the penis. The reason could be that the bladder muscles don’t function well. It is not dangerous but might affect fertility. To confirm you need a urologist to check and direct you accordingly.

Answered on 31st May '25

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i take ipill at night after unprotected sex in the morning evening then next day i do sex each other and day after tomorrow i do sex each other i didnt take any ipill can i take ipill once again

Female | 23

Emergency contraception like the i-pill is effective when taken after unprotected intercourse, ideally within 72 hours. However, frequent use can lead to side effects such as changes in your menstrual cycle, nausea, or fatigue. If you find yourself needing it often, consider discussing ongoing birth control options with a gynecologist. They can help you choose a method that suits your needs better.

Answered on 19th Mar '25

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My girlfriend and i were both fully clothed(sweatpants and underwear) she was on top of me and we both ejaculated, on my pants there was a big stain of sperm, and she was also wet, now we are concerned if there is a posibility to make a baby like that

Male | 18

The chances of pregnancy in the situation you described are actually quite low. For pregnancy to happen, sperm needs to enter the vagina and travel to meet an egg. In your case, with clothes on and no direct genital contact, the likelihood of sperm reaching the egg is very minimal. However, if you both want extra peace of mind, you could consider emergency contraception like the morning-after pill just to be on the safe side. It's always good to take precautions.

Answered on 15th Dec '25

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Questions & Answers on "Sexology Treatment" (1215)

I was doing sex with a sex workers and my condom teared and dont know on time and had sex with teared condom how many chances of me getting hiv and how i can aviid it ☠️

can't last long in the bed and I feel the size is to small

Baby ko ek sal ho gaye lekin sex karne ka man nahin karta hai Pati Se dur ban gai hai

I Had sex or not properly sex my partner just try to put his penis in my vagina but he just cannot or just little bit of it goes inside but he can't do precum or anything should I get pregnant or not what should I do

One day I do masturbation and suddenly a short pain feel in my private part right side.i think this is normal and pain is very little when I touched my private part a small pain feel. And this is around 1 month this is normal or someone.

I have low erection and premature ejaculation

Hi my girlfriend had licked my penis, though I hadn’t ejaculated but I suspect I had pre cummed, then she kissed me and she licked my fingers and fingered her, will this make her pregnant???

I’m having these white bumps (with black dot in the middle of it ) had an unprotectedsex last june 23.but he said he is fine. And i dont have sex for a long time now before him. I noticed these bumps last july 2 . Not itchy,but i feel like its sore sometimes.pls help me

I'm 27 years old male...i noticed something yesterday i masturbated two time when i go for third time..i feel a weird feeling on touching penis..means i don't want to touch penis...there is discomfort...how it recover?

I had a unprotected anal sex on 10 march ...with my boyfriend...but I am still virgin with vagina taken ab unwanted 72 within 72 hrs ...am I safe from pregnancy

Hydrocele pain, erectile dysfunction, male infertility, sperm volume, fsh, lh, hormone levels. Sperm count ,Premature ejaculation., inhibited ejaculation, libido sex problem please permanent recovery best ayurveda medicine please

Does outercourse 4 days before expected ovulation day can cause pregnancy if you also took levenogestrel within 24 hours?. Is there still any risk of pregnancy?

I am 20 year old . Problem releated to length of penus ,8 cm length it's maximum when it's normal 4 cm

Hi I want to ask a question day after I had physical with my partner but when I got the feel that the ejaculate will gonna happ6i pulled out and it taken 8 sec to 10 sec for ejaculate and I did it ont the belly. Is there any chance to be pregnant

i take ipill at night after unprotected sex in the morning evening then next day i do sex each other and day after tomorrow i do sex each other i didnt take any ipill can i take ipill once again

My girlfriend and i were both fully clothed(sweatpants and underwear) she was on top of me and we both ejaculated, on my pants there was a big stain of sperm, and she was also wet, now we are concerned if there is a posibility to make a baby like that

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