It's possible that you may be experiencing a condition called dyspareunia, which is pain or discomfort during intercourse. It happens due to vaginal dryness, infections or hormonal changes. It could also be a vaginal infection, such as yeast infection or bacterial vaginosis, which can cause inflammation and irritation in the vaginal area. Even stress or anxiety or certain medications can cause irritation. Just consult with an obstetrician/gynecologist or a urologist, to properly diagnose and treat your symptoms. This can be treated with medications, hormone therapy, or physical therapy.