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Asked for Male | 21 Years

Why Can't I Ejaculate During Sex?

Patient's Query

Hi sir good morning. My problem is doing sex with my wife not coming spirit doing masturbation coming spirit please say solutions

Answered by Dr. Madhu Sudan

It's actually quite common for some folks to experience differences in sexual arousal between masturbation and intercourse. When you masturbate, you have a level of control and familiarity that might not be there during intercourse. This can affect how quickly you reach climax. One possible solution could be to focus on incorporating more foreplay and communication with your wife during sex. This can help create a more comfortable and connected environment, potentially enhancing your sexual experience together. It might also be helpful to speak with a sexologist to rule out any underlying medical conditions. 

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Questions & Answers on "Sexology Treatment" (1090)

So l'am a man and I enjoy going commando in my formal pants although it shows what's in there but it's not about what it shows it is that whenever I wear a grey colour trouser i tend to leak pre cum alot and that's my personal observation that I leak alot in a grey colour trouser rather than any other colour is this a problem or just my thoughts?

Male | 20

To prevent the leaking of more pre-cum in gray pants, it can be due to increased sweat or the fabric color showing it more. It is not uncommon for men to have pre-cum. If this is bothering you, try out the underwear that will absorb moisture or see how light colors work. It is best to wear something that makes you feel comfortable.

Answered on 5th July '24

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My penis is very small how to big my penis

Male | 33

This doesn't mean the situation is necessarily a problem either. If you have any issues or doubts about penile health, it is most advisable for you to concentrate on the health of your penis. Exercising regularly, keeping a healthy weight, refraining from smoking, and being calm are the best ways to support blood flow to the penis. In the event of difficulties with sexual functioning or if other symptoms have occurred, it is a smart move to have a doctor check to get more direction and assistance.

Answered on 4th Dec '24

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Can i take dapoxetine and sildenafil together before sexual activity. How much mg should i take. I am looking for erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation

Male | 36

Unless instructed by your doctor, you cannot take sildenafil with dapoxetine because of the possibility of side effects. Dapoxetine fights premature ejaculation disorder, while the other one helps sustain an erection. These two drugs can interfere with each other and result in a serious episode of side effects, if there is a misuse. Your doctor always recommends the actual dosage. Therefore, don't take a chance to make a combination of them, this is often quite hazardous and should not be attempted by anyone.

Answered on 26th July '25

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Hello ma apny penis ke wajah sa preshan hon zyada mastrubation ke wajah sa us ke tightness khtm ho gye please us k kohe solution bata hn

Male | 30

Frequent se­lf-pleasure could be causing tightne­ss in your private area. This occurs when muscle­s get overworked. Te­lltale signs are pain or discomfort during ere­ctions. Cut back on activities for muscles to recove­r. Drink lots of water, and gently stretch too. 

Answered on 31st July '24

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I am having a lot of pain passing urine. I'm also bleeding a lot. This is after having sex with my s/o. We didn't use protection twice. I don't know if it's UTI or STI. I've never had this problem before and I'm terrified. Please assist

Female | 24

It appears from the symptoms you mention that something does not work well because of pain and bleeding which happen every time after having sexual intercourse. A UTI or an STI may be the cause of this. UTIs are infections that happen in the body's urinary tract, while STIs are infections that are transferred through sex. The most common symptoms are pain, burning when passing water, and bleeding. It is very important to see a doctor to make sure you're diagnosed and receive the proper treatment fast. Also, remember to always use protections during sex for instances of contamination.

Answered on 23rd May '24

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Iam 22 ling ka dhilapan

Male | 22

Ling's slackness at the age of 22 may be sourced from stress and fatigue that are very usual in your age group. There might be signs of a difficulty in sustaining an erection. Prioritizing mental health and precluding the drain of stress can be quite beneficial. A balanced diet, regular physical activity, and the support of family and friends can also be very helpful. Don't forget, self-care is your best friend!

Answered on 12th Dec '24

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We both Masturbated and While some sperm gets in my hand But it got cleaned with Tissue , later i Insert in vagina of her. after doing this .. will she be pregnant for sure ?

Male | 18

Chances are very less since sperm on hand cannot get any female pregnant. 

Answered on 23rd May '24

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I'm 17 years old I'm a female patient I'm addicted to masturbation I really want to stop it

Female | 17

Growing a desire to engage in sexual activity becomes one of the most characteristic features of the time of puberty. But if you want to cut back a bit, you may try looking for some hobbies or activities.

Answered on 23rd May '24

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SIR I HAVE ERECTION PROBLEMI AM 60 YEARS OLD.CAN I USE SILDENAFIL. I DONT HAVE ANY OTHER PROBLEMS NO DIABETIC,BP NORMAL, I AM NOT USING ANY DRUGS. I AM DOING REGULAR EXERCISES. IF SO HOW CAN I BUY IT.

Male | 60

You're suffering from some problems with getting and holding an erection. This is known as Erectile Dysfunction. Though you are, in general, healthy you may have this issue because you have advanced in age as a man. Sildenafil being a great choice which is much better to use often gives erections. The medicine is for sale at the pharmacy and must be prescribed by a doctor. Still, a primary doctor is necessary to examine and get proper advice on whether it is safe for you to take the medication.

Answered on 2nd July '24

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I am 21 years old. I used to watch porn and masterbate now I am feeling erection problem what I can do.Now I have too much anxiety about this and I can't able to say to my parents also.

Male | 21

You reache­d out about an erection issue. Fe­eling nervous is okay, as this problem is common. Lots of porn and masturbating may some­times cause temporary trouble­s getting hard. Try taking a break from those activitie­s. Focus instead on healthy habits, like e­xercising and eating nutritious foods. If the issue­ persists, talk to a doctor who can help find the right solution. 

Answered on 30th Nov '24

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