Which medicine for long-lasting intimacy with my wife?

A premature ejaculation or early discharge is a common sexual problem among men. It can be caused by different factors such as mental issues or physical problems. In case you are struggling with this issue, advise you to visit a urologist or a sexologist who may diagnose the root cause and prescribe the best treatment option.

One issue­ is when the sperm come­s out too fast, which doctors call premature ejaculation. Anothe­r problem is when a man cannot get or ke­ep his penis hard, known as ere­ctile dysfunction. These challe­nges may happen due to stre­ss, worry, or health issues. To make things be­tter, open communication with your partner is ke­y. Sharing feelings and nee­ds can bring understanding. Managing stress through relaxation, e­xercise, or hobbies can also he­lp. In some cases, counselling or me­dicine prescribed by a doctor may be­ beneficial. 

If there was any precum and you put the condom on inside out but then flipped it, there might be a small chance of pregnancy, but it’s not very likely. It’s only been 5 days since that happened, so it’s too early for her to have any signs of being pregnant. To make things even safer, suggest to her that she should use emergency contraception such as the morning-after pill. This will stop the egg from being fertilized. Also, just to be cautious, watch out for any unusual symptoms in your partner within the next few weeks like missing a period or having strange bleeding. 

It is crucial to realize that gaining an excessive amount of pornography and cyberspace ultimately results in being desensitized, and it has a negative impact on sexual encounters with real living partners and relationships.

The "flat line" effect, that you brought up, is also a commonly displayed problem where former porn addicts may experience a drop in their sex drive and arousal. But for now, the findings are not substantial, more studies are required to distinguish porn effect on sexual function from its own.

With regard to facilitation, many people have found it immensely helpful to consult a professional mental health care provider, such as a therapist or a counselor, and avail their expert help in dealing with this problem and addressing any underlying psychological factors. A sex therapist may possess skills in counseling individuals with sexual dysfunction or enhancing sexual functions.

Your well-being is of top concern and seeking the help of a mental and sexual health specialist can provide you with the needed information when making a decision about your next step. In this connection, I suggest you talk to a psychologist or sex therapist, whose main professional concern is the issues you are experiencing, for more help and support.

Best regards,
Dr. Madhu Sudan
 

Experiencing ED or PE? It’s when you finish too quickly or struggle to maintain an erection. Causes include stress, anxiety, or medical issues. Try relaxation techniques, communicate with your partner, or see a therapist. Doctors may suggest medications or therapy. Remember, it's common and treatable.

When you ejaculate only a small amount of semen, especially after masturbating a lot, it’s like running frequently- your body requires time to produce more sperm. This normally is not a big deal. However, if it hurts when you pee or you have trouble urinating at all then go see your doctor immediately. Try cutting back on how often you masturbate so that your body can have some time off.