Asked for Male | 18 Years

Why does my hole hurt and itch after fingering?

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I tried fingering with soap and now it hurts, feels itchy and I feel a beat in my hole

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Answered by Dr. Swapna Chekuri

It sounds like the soap may have irritated the delicate tissues in that area. The vagina is self-cleaning and doesn't need soap. Using soap can disrupt the natural balance of good bacteria, leading to irritation and itching. The heartbeat sensation you're feeling could be due to increased blood flow to the area because of the irritation. To help soothe it, try rinsing with warm water and wearing loose cotton underwear. Avoid scented products and harsh soaps. If the symptoms persist or worsen, it's best to see a gynecologist for further evaluation and treatment.

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Male | 42

Sperm details are normal to diverge. Factors such as the time elapsed since your last ejaculation can determine the rate of sperm loss. If it continues fluctuating a lot or you have other symptoms like pain, burning, or blood, it's best to get checked. Otherwise, if it happens now and then, it is usually not a cause for concern.

Answered on 26th Aug '24

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হ্যলো৷ ডাক্তার, আমার বয়স ১৯ বছর,আমি পড়াশোনা করি। কিছুদিন পর আমার পরীক্ষা, আমার মাথায় বিনা কারনে যৌন চিন্তা চলে আসে বারবার,যার কারনে সঠিক ভাবে পড়াশুনা করতে পারছিনা,রাতে ঘুমানোর সময়এইসব চিন্তা ঘোরাঘুরি করার কারনে নিজে থেকেই লিঙ্গ দিয়ে বীযপাত হয় যার ফলে মাঝে মাঝে সহ্য করতে না পেরে হস্তমৈথুন করে ফেলি।কোনভাবে নিজেকে হস্তমৈথুন থেকে আটকাতে পারি না..।আমি অনেকবার এটি ছাড়ার চেষ্টা করেছি। কিভাবে এই সমস্যা থেকে বের হবো?

Male | 19

It's completely normal to experience intrusive thoughts, especially at your age. This can happen due to stress or hormonal changes. To help manage these thoughts, try engaging in activities that keep your mind occupied, such as exercise, meditation, or hobbies you enjoy. Establishing a regular sleep routine can also reduce nighttime distractions. If you find it challenging to cope, consider discussing your feelings with a psychiatrist. They can provide tailored strategies to help you navigate this phase of life effectively.

Answered on 16th Feb '25

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I am 24 years old and i have a micropenis with Premature Ejaculation and Erectile Dysfunction. I am fully hard and cum with dick below 3 inches. I cant make my penis stand up himself and i leak my cum most of the time.

Male | 24

When combined, these symptoms may indicate a state known as hypogonadism, which can result in small penis size, erectile dysfunction, and premature ejaculation. This may be caused by the low level of certain hormones in the body. Seek medical attention for a proper diagnosis and treatment options, which may include hormone therapy or other medications. Don't be scared; some treatments can help you with your symptoms and the general quality of your life.

Answered on 21st Aug '24

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Im married I had miscarriage of 6 weeks after that I did torch test in that I got hsv igg and igm positive. My husband also did the test he got hsv igg positive and igm negative and he is saying his reports are normal.He is saying I only have the virus he doesn't have it. Is this true that he doesn't have this virus?? He is saying even if he touch me he will get it..My in laws are saying I will have abnormal babies in future and they leave me in my mother's house because if they touch me they will get this virus. These behaviours are disturbing me mentally, I'm crying I'm feeling depressed because of this..plz tell me what does the meaning of my and my husband test results?? Is all these things they are saying are true??

Female | 26

Cold sores, caused by herpes simplex virus, are common and can form around the mouth and in the genitals, but many, if not most, who have been infected show no symptoms. If you are tested for IgG and IgM antibodies, a positive result indicates the presence of the virus. Specifically, it means the virus has infected you in the past. Tattooing over a cold sore while it's active is a bad idea. There is no need to worry since casual touching is not a problem. Sexologist's instructions should be duly followed in such cases.

Answered on 23rd May '24

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I'm 23 years old , yesterday 01/04/2024 me and my girlfriend were together. I felt horny and I rubbed my pennis in her vagina but not pulled it in , I didn't cum but the liquid may be pre cum it's called was there when I saw my pennis, I don't know the liquid fell in there or not so I'm worried now , my partner can get pregnant or not , we are not married and also we never had sex just yesterday we did that just rub.

Female | 23

The fluid you talked about, called pre-cum, can sometimes have tiny sperm that might make a baby. Even without full entry, there is a small chance. Look out for missed monthly times or odd bleeding. To feel better, going to a clinic for emergency contrceptive pills may be a good idea.

Answered on 23rd May '24

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If woman use P2 today, and second day after use, she sex again without condom, can P2 help to avoid pregnancy?

Female | 21

If a person takes P2, it may help prevent pregnancy after unprotected sex. However, it is good to note that P2 is not 100% effective. To reduce the risk of becoming pregnant, a woman is advised to use additional condoms during any other sexual contact after taking P2. In case a woman encounters any unusual signs such as nausea, spotting, or breast tenderness after using P2, it is important to talk to a gynecologist who will give further advice.

Answered on 23rd May '24

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Can I take the hpv vaccine? I'm 23 F with no sexual history.

Female | 23

Yes, you can take the HPV vaccine. The HPV vaccine is advised for girls and boys from 9 to 26 years of age. It is especially efficient when it comes before sexual activity starts. Refer to your gynecologist or primary care doctor to know when the HPV vaccine is right for you.

Answered on 23rd May '24

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I am male person , i want contraceptive injection for 2 year no pregnancy , i don't want use condom , just want injection , so plz help me related that

Male | 28

Consult an expert for best advice

Answered on 23rd May '24

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How can I get rid of azoospermia?

Male | 27

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Answered on 23rd May '24

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Hi, I have been facing some issues in my sex life. We had couple of difficult experiences while having penetration previously, so we took a break from it and switched to oral and other forms of stimulation and we were enjoying it as well. But now we wanted do penetrative sex again, and when we tried we failed, as I have got pretty scared and meanwhile he lost his erection and wasn't completely hard on, so the experience wasn't good. How can we fix this? Also, I feel even if we stop being fearful about it, we are sometimes unable to find the hole, sometimes the vagina gets too dry to allow the penis in, and then it gets frustrating. Also, being on top is something that I am absolutely scared of, first I am not sure if my posture is correct to take it ahead, second I am fumble a lot to find the hole, even tho I know where it is exactly. My vagina expands a lot when fingering happens, even with three fingers, but I assume there is some issue with penis penetration. Please help.

Female | 28

It’s common to feel anxious about penetration after difficult experiences. Issues like dryness can affect comfort, so consider using a water-based lubricant to help. Gradual reintroduction to penetration in a relaxed setting may build confidence. Practicing different positions, including on top, can help you feel more in control; communication with your partner is key. If anxiety persists, it might be beneficial to speak with a sexologist who can offer personalized strategies and support tailored to your needs.

Answered on 24th Feb '25

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I am 22 years old unmarried girl I have nightfall two or three times every month. Why does this happen and due to which hormone? If this hormone is disturbed then it happens like this. And isn't it dangerous and won't create problems even after marriage?

Female | 22

It appears that you are undergoing nightfall. It is a normal thing for your age group. These episodes are a result of hormonal levels fluctuating, particularly testosterone. Imbalanced hormones can be the cause of nightfall syndrome. This is usually harmless and will not be a problem after marriage. However, if you are worried you should talk to a sexologist for advice that is appropriate for you.

Answered on 12th Aug '24

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My new girl tested for hsv2 igg. Her result was negative 8.0u/ml. Under 20 is negative. When i tested myself, my results always under 4.5. She had an oral outbreak in the moment of testing from hsv1. Could it affect her hsv2 result? https://ibb.co/sjfCf9N . Can we safely have sex? I'm worried about that 8 number although is in negative range.

Female | 36

It is recommended that you consult a specialist to clarify these issues. There is an oral lesion from HSV-1 upcoming, so it could affect the HSV-2 test results. I will advise going to a doctor who deals with sexually transmitted diseases for an accurate image.

Answered on 23rd May '24

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Hai sir my age 22old my pennis suddenly not strong what is prablom some time noraml strong this prablom is 1month start

Male | 22

Based on what you said, it seems that you have the kind of erection problems that come and go, sometimes you can have erections and at other times, you can't, which can be caused by different cases such as stress, anxiety, fatigue, or habits. It is said that this is the reason for concern, especially in your age. To deal with this matter, you should consider sticking to a diet rich in nutrients, getting enough physical exercise, and ensuring enough rest. Stress control, through relaxation exercises, might be helpful as well. However, in case it doesn't get any better or gets worse, I would suggest you seek help from a physician or sexologist who can help you get the best medical treatment and support.

Answered on 30th Dec '24

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About having some doudts on sex

Male | 22

Consult with a qualified healthcare provider whenever you have questions about your sexual health. These specialists can be the right person to tackle all your sexual health queries or concerns.

Answered on 25th July '25

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Agr sexual thought ka baad vagina discharge hota bht zyda zyda thought per only after sexual thought kya is say harmon imbalance toh nai hota or after marriage koi effect sex per?? Or agr sexual thought week may five times aye or five times yeh ho toh koi nuqsan toh ni hota?

Female | 23

Agar aapko sexual thoughts ke baad vaginal discharge zyada mehsoos hota hai, toh yeh ek normal physiological response hai. Yeh typically sexual arousal se hota hai. Aise thoughts se hormonal imbalance nahi hota, aur shadi ke baad sexual life par koi bura asar nahi hoga. Agar yeh feelings haftay mein paanch baar aati hain, toh bhi zyada chinta ki baat nahi. Lekin agar aapko discomfort ya unusual symptoms mehsoos hote hain, toh ek sexologist se mashwara lena behtar hoga.

Answered on 24th Jan '25

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Do I have STI? I feel sore down there. I always feel it every month and during sex it's very painful during penetration.

Female | 30

It can be that you have a sexually transmitted infection (STI). The typical signs are the pain, soreness, and discomfort down there. Sometimes, these infections lead to pain during sex. Monthly soreness could be a sign of a recurring issue. Sexual contact is the main way that STIs are spread. The healthcare provider should be consulted for testing and treatment. This is necessary for the health of both you and your partner.

Answered on 26th Aug '24

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I have been forgetting things from 7 years till now i don't forget about a certain period of time but i just forget many things and because of exposure to sex when I was just 7 or 8 years old boy i am facing sexual desire

Male | 19

It's understandable to feel concerned about memory issues and feelings of sexual desire. Memory lapses can stem from various factors, including stress, lack of sleep, or even emotional experiences from the past. It's important to explore these feelings in a safe environment. I suggest you speak with a sexologist who can provide tailored support and advice. They can help you understand these experiences better and suggest coping strategies.

Answered on 23rd Apr '25

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I had a unprotected anal sex on 10 march ...with my boyfriend...but I am still virgin with vagina taken ab unwanted 72 within 72 hrs ...am I safe from pregnancy

Female | 23

It's understandable to have concerns after intimate encounters. Since you engaged in unprotected anal sex, the primary risk is sexually transmitted infections (STIs) rather than pregnancy, as the vagina is not involved. The emergency contraceptive pill you took is effective in preventing pregnancy from vaginal intercourse, but it does not affect risks from STIs. Monitoring for any unusual symptoms, such as pain or unusual discharge, is wise. If you have any concerns or feel unwell, consulting a sexologist is advisable for personalized care and comprehensive testing.

Answered on 20th Mar '25

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While involving mastrabution continuesly. Is there chance to hair Fall and cancer

Male | 24

One of the things individuals commonly do is that masturbation does not result in hair loss or any other diseases. Hair loss may be since it is hereditary or because of stress. Cancer is often blamed on many things among which masturbation is not one. Consult a sexologist if you think you have some symptoms that are not usual. They will help you get the correct diagnosis and treatment.

Answered on 26th Nov '24

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Me and my girlfriend wear wearing the underwear and I rub my penis without any ejaculation will she be pregnant pls tell me I'm in stree

Female | 17

Considering the circumstances, it is improbable that your girlfriend could become pregnant if there was no ejaculation. Nevertheless, it is good to realize that any genital contact has some risk involved. Therefore, if she starts experiencing any unusual signs like missing her periods or having abnormal bleeding; I advise you to go for a pregnancy test so that you can be sure about everything.

Answered on 28th May '24

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Questions & Answers on "Sexology Treatment" (1018)

I masterbate every night my sperm comes out little bit sometimes comes out alots is it normal

I am 24 years old and i have a micropenis with Premature Ejaculation and Erectile Dysfunction. I am fully hard and cum with dick below 3 inches. I cant make my penis stand up himself and i leak my cum most of the time.

If woman use P2 today, and second day after use, she sex again without condom, can P2 help to avoid pregnancy?

Can I take the hpv vaccine? I'm 23 F with no sexual history.

I am male person , i want contraceptive injection for 2 year no pregnancy , i don't want use condom , just want injection , so plz help me related that

How can I get rid of azoospermia?

I am 22 years old unmarried girl I have nightfall two or three times every month. Why does this happen and due to which hormone? If this hormone is disturbed then it happens like this. And isn't it dangerous and won't create problems even after marriage?

Hai sir my age 22old my pennis suddenly not strong what is prablom some time noraml strong this prablom is 1month start

About having some doudts on sex

Agr sexual thought ka baad vagina discharge hota bht zyda zyda thought per only after sexual thought kya is say harmon imbalance toh nai hota or after marriage koi effect sex per?? Or agr sexual thought week may five times aye or five times yeh ho toh koi nuqsan toh ni hota?

Do I have STI? I feel sore down there. I always feel it every month and during sex it's very painful during penetration.

I have been forgetting things from 7 years till now i don't forget about a certain period of time but i just forget many things and because of exposure to sex when I was just 7 or 8 years old boy i am facing sexual desire

I had a unprotected anal sex on 10 march ...with my boyfriend...but I am still virgin with vagina taken ab unwanted 72 within 72 hrs ...am I safe from pregnancy

While involving mastrabution continuesly. Is there chance to hair Fall and cancer

Me and my girlfriend wear wearing the underwear and I rub my penis without any ejaculation will she be pregnant pls tell me I'm in stree

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